Configure VM services and fix auth flow

- point MySQL and Whisper settings to the VM
- add VM MySQL bootstrap scripts and docs
- allow LAN Vite origins for CORS
- fix Express 5 validation assignment crash
- allow login with username or email
- prevent recursive auth refresh retries

frontend/index.html

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+<!doctype html>
+<html lang="en" class="dark">
+  <head>
+    <meta charset="UTF-8" />
+    <meta name="viewport" content="width=device-width, initial-scale=1.0" />
+    <meta name="description" content="Record, transcribe, and share meeting voice notes." />
+    <title>Orphion — Meeting Intelligence Portal</title>
+    <link rel="preconnect" href="https://fonts.googleapis.com" />
+    <link rel="preconnect" href="https://fonts.gstatic.com" crossorigin />
+    <link
+      rel="stylesheet"
+      href="https://fonts.googleapis.com/css2?family=Inter:wght@300;400;500;600;700&family=Space+Grotesk:wght@400;500;600;700&family=JetBrains+Mono:wght@400;500&display=swap"
+    />
+  </head>
+  <body>
+    <div id="root"></div>
+    <script type="module" src="/src/main.tsx"></script>
+  </body>
+</html>